Dear Married Friend, You know that scripture that says "Can two work together except they agree?" I believe it is an underrated winning secret in a marriage that nobody is talking about. If you've seen an animal trying to go in a different direction from where the owner needs it to go, then you'll understand what it's like for you and your partner to be talking from 2 sides of your mouth. Recently, I was reading Genesis 11 which records the story of the Tower of Babel...the story about the people who spoke one language and wanted to build a tower until it reached heaven (what a wild dream). Now, they wanted to make a name for themselves. That was the goal. They didn't want the world to forget about them even when they were gone. As an aside, I wonder how they thought that far in such primitive times. It tells me that our minds are built to stretch themselves and birth big, daring dreams. Anyway, back to the story. In verse 6 of that chapter, God says ...
A sincere and open letter to couples x-raying marriage from God's lens.